Jim and I got back home this afternoon from a wonderful trip to our friend's place near Ely, MN. They own a sweet cabin on a big lake north of town. We went up Saturday to celebrate our 28th / 8th anniversary and our friend's birthday. What a fabulous trip to visit our close friends, S & N!
This trip got me thinking. What if I was not able to do any traveling? What if I had to stay home because of the damage AIDS has done to my body?
Often travel for me can be a huge challenge because of the many medical issues I face day to day. I have to either medicate or be close to restrooms at all times because of bowel troubles. Pain can cause me to have to take more medications or lay low. I need to rest often because of chronic fatigue. There are so many issues I have to worry about and so many things I have to make sure I remember to pack. Is travel worth all I have to put up with?
My answer in one word, YES! I love seeing the country and the world with Jim. I so enjoy visiting friends and family in their favorite places. I can not go through life without experiencing other cultures and traditions. And, I absolutely LOVE to try new foods, see new things, meet new friends and experience the world first hand. Without travel, what an awful life I think I would have.
Still, I realize that there may come a day when I will have to stay put. I just hope that Jim will be at my side and that I will live in a place that my friends and family will want to come and visit me.
On this trip to Ely I made friends with a chipmunk. By the end of the visit I was feeding him from my hand and he was climbing on my lap and checking me out. I also fed chickadees and nut hatches from my hand.
These are just some examples of the experiences that make travel worth the trouble for me. Plus, I get to share these experiences with people I love! Thank you Jim and our friends in Ely, S & N!! Love you all!!!
This blog is about my life with AIDS, my thoughts and my feelings as I fight to live, learn and teach. I was diagnosed in 2002 with AIDS after nearly dying twice. Now I fight to live and live to fight so I can teach others to help stop the spread of HIV.
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